She had accepted him as he was and had spared him a great deal of loneliness. He had been unfair: while his imagination and vanity had given her too much importance, his pride had given her too little. He discovered the cruel paradox by which we always deceive ourselves twice about the people we love - first to their advantage, then to their disadvantage. Albert Camus
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The quote from the movie "Casablanca" is a good example of how we trick ourselves into thinking that the people who we love the most are the ones who are most important. In reality, however, they are often the ones who are most disappointing. They have everything going for them and yet they fail to live up to our expectations. We might say, “He’s a really good guy, but he’s not very strong.” In reality, he is actually very strong and he is a great guy.

What we mean is that he isn’t as strong as we thought he was. He can do things that we thought of as being impossible for him.

Source: A Happy Death

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